Talking about sexuality with preteens and teenagers is so important, yet it can bring up a lot of emotions for parents.
…Aren’t they still too young for this?
…They’ll probably hear about it at school, so maybe I don’t have to talk about it?
…What if they ask about my experiences as a teen?
…This is SO embarrassing!
For many parents, discussing this topic can be especially challenging due to their own unresolved issues or discomfort related to sexuality. These difficulties often stem from generational messages, personal trauma, and cultural beliefs that shape their views. Thinking about having “the talk” with their kids can seem overwhelming and something to avoid–but by embracing the opportunity to self-reflect, the process can actually be a time of connection and positivity–with both yourself and your child. Let’s dig in!
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Connecting with older kids can sometimes feel like navigating a labyrinth of changing interests, peer influences, and evolving personalities. As they mature, their interactions often shift towards more serious topics or activities, leaving parents wondering how to maintain a bond that bridges the generation gap. Playfulness and silliness may have been natural during their early years, and it's just tricky now that they're older. Surprisingly, one of the most effective bridges can be found in something seemingly unexpected: silliness.
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